Grampy’s Chicken

Chicken, spicy sausages, potatoes, and onions – that was it. The meal didn’t have a fancy name, we just called it Grampy’s Chicken because Grampy Tibaudo was the one who chopped and baked the chicken, potatoes, spicy sausages, and onions. He’d toss it all in some Italian seasonings and throw it in a buttered up glass baking dish, let it cook for a while, then remove it with an oven mitt older than I was. I’d watch as a glistening mix of grease bubbled at the bottom of the dish, anxious to stab my fork into a potato that seemed to be taunting me with its steam and spice. Mom would always tell me to wait at least five minutes before I attempted to pop one in my mouth, their insides hotter than the surface of hell; I rarely listened, inevitably burning the roof of my mouth and cursing my haste while Mom gave me that look. As scorching as it was, that first bite out of the oven was the most comforting. Grampy passed on the recipe to my mom, and then Grampy passed on. 

Mom got really good at making Grampy’s Chicken, not that it was a hard recipe to master. But for some reason the potatoes were always softer, the chicken always a little more tender, the sausages always a little spicier when made by the hands of a Tibaudo.

Last year, while snooping around an old boss’s house on a work retreat in Utah, I found a scrapbook of sorts filled with recipes and old photos. As I turned to him with the book in my hand, ready to inquire, his face slipped into a smile. 

“My grandma had a bunch of great recipes that my cousins and I wanted to remember. For Christmas one year we made a book filled with our favorites, plus some family photos, and gave them out as gifts. Grandma loved it,” he said as he took the book from my hands and started to fold through its worn pages. “I’ll always have these recipes.” 

My heart sank a little bit, the way it does when someone does something better than you, something more profound. The pang only lasted a second before it turned to joy. What a wonderful way to remember her. 

A similar pang reemerges whenever I think about Grampy’s Tuna Noodle Casserole, his Chicken Cacciatore, or the live lobsters he’d fly from Boston to LA with every summer. He’d cook the whole family a feast on his first night in town – boiled lobsters, grilled corn, mashed potatoes, antipasto salad, and the juicy, buttery sauce we’d dip everything in. Grampy was always the last to finish, cracking and sucking out every sliver of meat from his transcontinental crustacean. As kids, we didn’t get to see Grampy or Nana as often as we wanted to – us in the West, them in the East. Those dinners were a portal into a past I’d never known; one where my mom roamed the streets of Boston, hiding mischief from her police officer father, counting quarters with him at the laundromat he owned across the street, eating his delicious Italian dinners every night. I never asked him about his recipes, never thought to write them down. The pang reemerges when I realize, time and time again, that I’ll never be able to. 

I’ve never tried to make Grampy’s Chicken myself. I’ve attempted far bolder recipes in cookbooks from people I’m not related to, and they’ve turned out pretty well. But the heart is missing. The familiarity is missing. Sure, the food tastes good, but the potatoes aren’t as scorching and I’m always waiting until they’ve cooled down to take the first bite. 

Grampy’s Chicken only calls for four ingredients, plus whatever spices he felt like throwing in that day. Thankfully, it’s the one recipe I’ll always remember. 

6 thoughts on “Grampy’s Chicken

  1. This is a special memory. You have some great turns of phrase (like, “Grampy passed on the recipe… and then Grampy passed on.”) and some great descriptions as well. I can almost smell the potatoes and baked grease in the first paragraph.

    If I could give some constructive feedback, in the first paragraph, almost all your sentences are the same length and structure, and it would help to “spice” it up if you had some variation. You did this well in the second to last paragraph: the two short sentences in the middle made me as a reader pause and think about the comparison you’re making.

    Thanks for sharing this recipe!

    1. Thanks so much for your feedback, Katie. I can definitely see how “spicing” the first paragraph up would help it to read better. I appreciate your comment!

  2. This is a very beautiful tribute. I really love the back half of it and getting a glimpse into your mom’s childhood. If you really wanted to go the extra distance with this essay maybe you could share the recipe?

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